What do we believe? Now THAT is an important question. So often people make assumptions, and that can lead to erroneous conclusions, so below are the fundamentals.

About All People

1. All people are dearly loved by God, unconditionally, as they are.
2. Everyone’s story matters – it is how people have gotten to where they are today.
3. No one is out of God’s reach, He is with us even in our darkest hours, on the Cross Himself.
4. Every moment of suffering can be surrendered for a greater purpose.
5. God bestows graces upon all people as He sees fit, and we are given the choice to cooperate with those graces.

Further:
6. Merely experiencing any particular romantic/sexual attraction/inclination/desire is not a sin.
7. If anyone has felt shame for experiencing an unchosen desire, they can let go of that shame.
8. The Church isn’t trying to “change” people’s attractions or their sexuality.
9. The Church desires that all people come to know Jesus Christ, especially through the Sacraments.
10. Jesus Christ is lovingly waiting for us all of us to surrender our hearts to Him a little more.

Overarching Church Documents

1. We believe all that is stated in the Catholic Profession of Faith.
“With firm faith, I also believe everything contained in the word of God, whether written or handed down in Tradition, which the Church, either by a solemn judgment or by the ordinary and universal Magisterium, sets forth to be believed as divinely revealed. I also firmly accept and hold each and everything definitively proposed by the Church regarding teaching on faith and morals.” – Profession of Faith, Para. 4 (emphasis added)
2. We believe all that is proposed in the Catechism of the Catholic Church promulgated by St. Pope John Paul II (plus subsequent revisions), as per paragraphs 3 and 4 of the aforementioned Catholic Profession of Faith.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church, which I approved 25 June last and the publication of which I today order by virtue of my Apostolic Authority, is a statement of the Church’s faith and of Catholic doctrine, attested to or illumined by Sacred Scripture, Apostolic Tradition and the Church’s Magisterium. I declare it to be a valid and legitimate instrument for ecclesial communion and a sure norm for teaching the faith. May it serve the renewal to which the Holy Spirit ceaselessly calls the Church of God, the Body of Christ, on her pilgrimage to the undiminished light of the kingdom!” Also, that it is “a sure norm for teaching the faith … a sure and authentic reference text for teaching Catholic doctrine and particularly for preparing local catechisms”. – Fidei Depositum Pope John Paul II, October 11, 1992
The great value and beauty of this gift are confirmed above all by the extensive and positive reception of the Catechism among Bishops, to whom it was primarily addressed as a sure and authentic reference text for teaching Catholic doctrine and, in particular, for formulating local catechisms.  – Pope Benedict in his Motu Proprio for “Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church.”

The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC)

3. We believe that everything must be directed towards God, the Church’s teachings are proposed (not imposed), and that virtue must be prioritized above mere “Catholic-looking” behaviors.
To conclude this Prologue, it is fitting to recall this pastoral principle stated by the Roman Catechism: The whole concern of doctrine and its teaching must be directed to the love that never ends. Whether something is proposed for belief, for hope or for action, the love of our Lord must always be made accessible, so that anyone can see that all the works of perfect Christian virtue spring from love and have no other objective than to arrive at love. – CCC 25
4. We believe that dignity is tied to truth, that we are not victims of circumstance, and that growth in virtue is a fruit of cooperating with God’s grace.
The dignity of the human person is rooted in his creation in the image and likeness of God (article 1); it is fulfilled in his vocation to divine beatitude (article 2). It is essential to a human being freely to direct himself to this fulfillment (article 3). By his deliberate actions (article 4), the human person does, or does not, conform to the good promised by God and attested by moral conscience (article 5). Human beings make their own contribution to their interior growth; they make their whole sentient and spiritual lives into means of this growth (article 6). With the help of grace they grow in virtue (article 7), avoid sin, and if they sin they entrust themselves as did the prodigal son to the mercy of our Father in heaven (article 8). In this way they attain to the perfection of charity. – CCC 1700
5. We believe that the Church proposes that we strive to grow in the fullness of virtue.
Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” A virtue is an habitual and firm disposition to do the good. It allows the person not only to perform good acts, but to give the best of himself. The virtuous person tends toward the good with all his sensory and spiritual powers; he pursues the good and chooses it in concrete actions. The goal of a virtuous life is to become like God. – CCC 1803
6. We believe that it is a matter of lovingly respecting the dignity of each persons to help each person come to know what is possible within their lives.
In keeping with the social nature of man, the good of each individual is necessarily related to the common good, which in turn can be defined only in reference to the human person: Do not live entirely isolated, having retreated into yourselves, as if you were already justified, but gather instead to seek the common good together. By common good is to be understood “the sum total of social conditions which allow people, either as groups or as individuals, to reach their fulfillment more fully and more easily. The common good concerns the life of all. – CCC 1905-1906
7. We believe that one of the ways people sin is by rejecting the truths written into the order of creation.
Sin is an offense against reason, truth, and right conscience; it is failure in genuine love for God and neighbor caused by a perverse attachment to certain goods. It wounds the nature of man and injures human solidarity. It has been defined as “an utterance, a deed, or a desire contrary to the eternal law. – CCC 1949
8. We believe that one’s culpability may vary, depending on circumstance, and that one’s culpability is only fully known by God.
Unintentional ignorance can diminish or even remove the imputability of a grave offense. But no one is deemed to be ignorant of the principles of the moral law, which are written in the conscience of every man. The promptings of feelings and passions can also diminish the voluntary and free character of the offense, as can external pressures or pathological disorders. Sin committed through malice, by deliberate choice of evil, is the gravest. – CCC 1860
9. We believe that most people approach their life-decisions with the best of intentions, however, good intentions do not making something inherently “good.”
Sin creates a proclivity to sin; it engenders vice by repetition of the same acts. This results in perverse inclinations which cloud conscience and corrupt the concrete judgment of good and evil. Thus sin tends to reproduce itself and reinforce itself, but it cannot destroy the moral sense at its root. – CCC 1865
10. We believe that prioritizing the satisfaction of rational appetites above the satisfaction of emotional/passionate appetites will lead to healthier and holier relationships.

The term “passions” belongs to the Christian patrimony. Feelings or passions are emotions or movements of the sensitive appetite that incline us to act or not to act in regard to something felt or imagined to be good or evil. – CCC 1763
The passions[/emotions] are natural components of the human psyche; they form the passageway and ensure the connection between the life of the senses and the life of the mind. Our Lord called man’s heart the source from which the passions spring. – CCC 1764
There are many passions. the most fundamental passion is love, aroused by the attraction of the good. Love causes a desire for the absent good and the hope of obtaining it; this movement finds completion in the pleasure and joy of the good possessed. the apprehension of evil causes hatred, aversion, and fear of the impending evil; this movement ends in sadness at some present evil, or in the anger that resists it. – CCC 1765
“To love is to will the good of another.”41 All other affections have their source in this first movement of the human heart toward the good. Only the good can be loved.42 Passions “are evil if love is evil and good if it is good. – CCC 1766

11. We believe that we must actively participate in the formation of our consciences and that the greater the opportunity to properly form our conscience, the greater our culpability for our beliefs.
Conscience must be informed and moral judgment enlightened. A well-formed conscience is upright and truthful. It formulates its judgments according to reason, in conformity with the true good willed by the wisdom of the Creator. The education of conscience is indispensable for human beings who are subjected to negative influences and tempted by sin to prefer their own judgment and to reject authoritative teachings. – CCC 1783
A human being must always obey the certain judgment of his conscience. If he were deliberately to act against it, he would condemn himself. Yet it can happen that moral conscience remains in ignorance and makes erroneous judgments about acts to be performed or already committed. – CCC 1790
This ignorance can often be imputed to personal responsibility. This is the case when a man “takes little trouble to find out what is true and good, or when conscience is by degrees almost blinded through the habit of committing sin.” 59 In such cases, the person is culpable for the evil he commits. – CCC 1791
Ignorance of Christ and his Gospel, bad example given by others, enslavement to one’s passions, assertion of a mistaken notion of autonomy of conscience, rejection of the Church’s authority and her teaching, lack of conversion and of charity: these can be at the source of errors of judgment in moral conduct. – CCC 1792
If – on the contrary – the ignorance is invincible, or the moral subject is not responsible for his erroneous judgment, the evil committed by the person cannot be imputed to him. It remains no less an evil, a privation, a disorder. One must therefore work to correct the errors of moral conscience. – CCC 1793
12. We believe that we will be held accountable for how we shape the imaginations of others.
Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them: – by participating directly and voluntarily in them; – by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them; – by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so; – by protecting evil-doers. – CCC 1868